1、 宽容 一只小猪、一只绵羊和一头乳牛,被关在同一个畜栏里。有一次,牧人捉住小猪,牠大声号叫,猛烈地抗拒。绵羊和乳牛讨厌牠的号叫,便说:「他常常捉我们,我们并不大呼小叫」。小猪听了回答道:「捉你们和捉我完全是两回事,他捉你们,只是要你们的毛和乳汁,但是捉住我,却是要我的命呢! 」 立场不同、所处环境不同的人,很难了解对方的感受;因此对别人的失意、挫折、伤痛,不宜幸灾乐祸,而应要有关怀、了解的心情。要有宽容的心!
2、 靠自己小蜗牛问妈妈:为什么我们从生下来,就要背负这个又硬又重的壳呢? 妈妈:因为我们的身体没有骨骼的支撑,只能爬,又爬不快。所以要这个壳的保护!小蜗牛:毛虫姊姊没有骨头,也爬不快,为什么她却不用背这个又硬又重的壳呢? 妈妈:因为毛虫姊姊能变成蝴蝶,天空会保护她啊。小蜗牛:可是蚯蚓弟弟也没骨头爬不快,也不会变成蝴蝶他什么不背这个又硬又重的壳呢?妈妈:因为蚯蚓弟弟会钻土, 大地会保护他啊。小蜗牛哭了起来:我们好可怜,天空不保护,大地也不保护。蜗牛妈妈安慰他:「所以我们有壳啊!」我们不靠天,也不靠地,我们靠自己。
3、 鲨鱼与鱼 曾有人做过实验,将一只最凶猛的鲨鱼和一群热带鱼放在同一个池子,然后用强化玻璃隔开,最初,鲨鱼每天不断冲撞那块看不到的玻璃,耐何这只是徒劳,它始终不能过到对面去,而实验人员每天都有放一些鲫鱼在池子里,所以鲨鱼也没缺少猎物,只是它仍想到对面去,想尝试那美丽的滋味,每天仍是不断的冲撞那块玻璃,它试了每个角落,每次都是用尽全力,但每次也总是弄的伤痕累累,有好几次都浑身破裂出血,持续了好一些日子,每当玻璃一出现裂痕,实验人员马上加上一块更厚的玻璃。 后来,鲨鱼不再冲撞那块玻璃了,对那些斑斓的热带鱼也不再在意,好像他们只是墙上会动的壁画,它开始等着每天固定会出现的鲫鱼,然后用他敏捷的本能进行狩猎,好像回到海中不可一世的凶狠霸气,但这一切只不过是假像罢了,实验到了最后的阶段,实验人员将玻璃取走,但鲨鱼却没有反应,每天仍是在固定的区域游着,它不但对那些热带鱼视若无睹,甚至于当那些鲫鱼逃到那边去,他就立刻放弃追逐,说什么也不愿再过去,实验结束了,实验人员讥笑它是海里最懦弱的鱼。 可是失恋过的人都知道为什么,它怕痛。
4、 神迹 法国一个偏僻的小镇,据传有一个特别灵验的水泉,常会出现神迹,可以医治各种疾病。有一天,一个拄着拐杖,少了一条腿的退伍军人,一跛一跛的走过镇上的马路,旁边的镇民带着同情的回吻说:“可怜的家伙,难道他要向上帝祈求再有一条腿吗??”这一句话被退伍的军人听到了,他转过身对他们说:“我不是要向上帝祈求有一条新的腿,而是要祈求祂帮助我,叫我没有一条腿后,也知道如何过日子。” 试想:学习为所失去的感恩,也接纳失去的事实,不管人生的得与失,总是要让自已的生命充满了亮丽与光彩,不再为过去掉泪,努力的活出自己的生命。
5、 钓竿 有个老人在河边钓鱼,一个小孩走过去看他钓鱼,老人技巧纯熟,所以没多久就钓上了满篓的鱼,老人见小孩很可爱,要把整篓的鱼送给他,小孩摇摇头,老人惊异的问道:「你为何不要?」小孩回答:「我想要你手中的钓竿。」老人问:「你要钓竿做什么?」小孩说:「这篓鱼没多久就吃完了,要是我有钓竿,我就可以自己钓,一辈子也吃不完。」 我想你一定会说:好聪明的小孩。错了,他如果只要钓竿,那他一条鱼也吃不到。因为,他不懂钓鱼的技巧,光有鱼竿是没用的,因为钓鱼重要的不在“钓竿”,而在“钓技”。 有太多人认为自己拥有了人生道上的钓竿,再也无惧于路上的风雨,如此,难免会跌倒于泥泞地上。就如小孩看老人,以为只要有钓竿就有吃不完的鱼,像职员看老板,以为只要坐在办公室,就有滚进的财源。
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Monday, December 29, 2008
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Monday, December 15, 2008
ok i'm now 18 yrs 1 day and 12 hours old!whoo finally legal to do lots of stuff
wahahaha.
ok and maybe it's time to grow up too.shant be so childish anymore.a bit har ar but ok lar i'll try to be a little less childish heh.nid to grow up whoo.
oh oh and a big thank you to all the ppl tat greeted me! be it via sms,msn,facebook,phonecalls etc heh.u guys rly made my day!!!although i spent half of it attending the ultimate boring undang lesson.haha.
ok so a big hug and thank you for the following ppl: my family, of course, my 2 greatest families in singapore: 07S47 and ODAC =D, the super crazy vj msians XD, e forever imba cat high jar jar binks, not forgetting also xinrong,dianne,huiqing,jun ru,grace,zhi han,damian,auntie linda,yong hui,jialu,pey yih,jia horng,ricky,kai han and her super delicious cake heh,荣升,kai chi,xin ran,si xuan,and some whom i dunno personally but still greeted me on facebook and friendster. thank you so much ppl! u guys rock! haha.
my blog posts seem to be decreasing over the past few months, heh partly because i cant jus share abt my feelings and wat happened in my life online so freely now.yeah i guess it is rly true tat when u gain some,u lose some huh.
life in malaysia so far has been great,very unhealthy tho,hha my parents hav been stuffing me wif everthing they could get so tat i can gain some weigt.oh wells.
went for the undang lesson ytd, jus wanna get my driving license as quickl as possible haha.hopefully i'll be able to take the test this wednesday before all the trips start. the undang lesson was darn boring by the way,i couldnt understand the lecturer most of the time cos i rly lost touch wif malay lol. and they speak pretty fast.so yeah, gain practically nth in the 6-hours long lesson.lol nvm at least my sis and her frens were thr,so it wasnt tat boring heh.
ming yao came over last nite,very long nv c him lo,talked non-stop for 1 hour plus b4 he went bak to his aunt's hse hehe.
ok i shall go study undang now le.feeling lazy to blog.haha till nxt time then =D
wahahaha.
ok and maybe it's time to grow up too.shant be so childish anymore.a bit har ar but ok lar i'll try to be a little less childish heh.nid to grow up whoo.
oh oh and a big thank you to all the ppl tat greeted me! be it via sms,msn,facebook,phonecalls etc heh.u guys rly made my day!!!although i spent half of it attending the ultimate boring undang lesson.haha.
ok so a big hug and thank you for the following ppl: my family, of course, my 2 greatest families in singapore: 07S47 and ODAC =D, the super crazy vj msians XD, e forever imba cat high jar jar binks, not forgetting also xinrong,dianne,huiqing,jun ru,grace,zhi han,damian,auntie linda,yong hui,jialu,pey yih,jia horng,ricky,kai han and her super delicious cake heh,荣升,kai chi,xin ran,si xuan,and some whom i dunno personally but still greeted me on facebook and friendster. thank you so much ppl! u guys rock! haha.
my blog posts seem to be decreasing over the past few months, heh partly because i cant jus share abt my feelings and wat happened in my life online so freely now.yeah i guess it is rly true tat when u gain some,u lose some huh.
life in malaysia so far has been great,very unhealthy tho,hha my parents hav been stuffing me wif everthing they could get so tat i can gain some weigt.oh wells.
went for the undang lesson ytd, jus wanna get my driving license as quickl as possible haha.hopefully i'll be able to take the test this wednesday before all the trips start. the undang lesson was darn boring by the way,i couldnt understand the lecturer most of the time cos i rly lost touch wif malay lol. and they speak pretty fast.so yeah, gain practically nth in the 6-hours long lesson.lol nvm at least my sis and her frens were thr,so it wasnt tat boring heh.
ming yao came over last nite,very long nv c him lo,talked non-stop for 1 hour plus b4 he went bak to his aunt's hse hehe.
ok i shall go study undang now le.feeling lazy to blog.haha till nxt time then =D
Thursday, December 4, 2008
A Message by George Carlin, and how true it is..
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways ,but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...
Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.
Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
If you don't send this to other people....Who cares?
George Carlin
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways ,but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...
Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.
Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
If you don't send this to other people....Who cares?
George Carlin
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
haha ok i shall be studying but this is kinda funny.
good stuff to destress heh.
ok off to chem!
> > 某天夜裡, 一名裸男叫了一輛計程車, 女司機目不轉睛盯著他看.
> >
> > 裸男大怒,罵:「你他媽的沒見過裸男呀 ! 」
> >
> > 女司機也大怒:「我看你他媽的從哪裡掏錢 ! 」
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
> >
> >
> > 有個老頭去看醫生,告訴醫生他的腸胃有問題。
> >
> > 醫生問他:「你的大便規律嗎?」
> >
> > 老頭說:「很規律,每天早上八點鐘準時大便。」
> >
> > 醫生說:「那麼,你還有什麼問題?」
> >
> > 老頭說:「問題是,我每天早上九點鐘才起床。」
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
> >
> >
> > 一位救生員向一名泳客抗議:「我已經注意了你三天了,先生,你不能在游泳池小
> 便。」
> >
> > 泳客:「每個人都在游泳池小便。」
> >
> > 救生員:「沒錯!先生,但只有你站在跳板上。」
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
> >
> >
> > 阿萍﹕『為什麼【男】字上面是個田字呢?』
> >
> > 阿玲﹕『因為古時候的男人都在田裡工作。』
> >
> > 阿萍﹕『那為什麼下面要加個力字呢?』
> >
> > 阿玲﹕『笨蛋!男人下面沒力還叫男人嗎!?』
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
> >
> >
> > 某大公司老闆巡視倉庫,發現一個工人,坐在地上看漫畫書。
> >
> > 老闆最痛恨工人在工作時間偷懶,便問:你一個月的月薪多少?
> >
> > 工人回答:三萬。老闆立刻叫秘書發給工人三萬塊,並且對著工人大叫:拿了錢給
> 我滾!
> >
> > 事後老闆問其他職員:那工人是誰介紹來的?
> >
> > 職員說:他不是我們公司的人,他是其他公司派來送貨的
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
> >
> >
> > 兩隻母雞在樹下聊天,對面走來一隻腳步不穩,無精打采,垂頭喪氣的公雞,一隻
> 母雞問:「怎麼啦?病啦?累成這樣?」
> >
> > 公雞說: 「做點小買賣累成的。」
> >
> > 另一隻母雞跟著問: 「做啥買賣勞累成這樣呢?」
> >
> > 公雞臉紅,低下頭說:
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> > .
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> > .
> >
> > 「賣雞精。」
good stuff to destress heh.
ok off to chem!
> > 某天夜裡, 一名裸男叫了一輛計程車, 女司機目不轉睛盯著他看.
> >
> > 裸男大怒,罵:「你他媽的沒見過裸男呀 ! 」
> >
> > 女司機也大怒:「我看你他媽的從哪裡掏錢 ! 」
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
> >
> >
> > 有個老頭去看醫生,告訴醫生他的腸胃有問題。
> >
> > 醫生問他:「你的大便規律嗎?」
> >
> > 老頭說:「很規律,每天早上八點鐘準時大便。」
> >
> > 醫生說:「那麼,你還有什麼問題?」
> >
> > 老頭說:「問題是,我每天早上九點鐘才起床。」
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
> >
> >
> > 一位救生員向一名泳客抗議:「我已經注意了你三天了,先生,你不能在游泳池小
> 便。」
> >
> > 泳客:「每個人都在游泳池小便。」
> >
> > 救生員:「沒錯!先生,但只有你站在跳板上。」
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
> >
> >
> > 阿萍﹕『為什麼【男】字上面是個田字呢?』
> >
> > 阿玲﹕『因為古時候的男人都在田裡工作。』
> >
> > 阿萍﹕『那為什麼下面要加個力字呢?』
> >
> > 阿玲﹕『笨蛋!男人下面沒力還叫男人嗎!?』
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
> >
> >
> > 某大公司老闆巡視倉庫,發現一個工人,坐在地上看漫畫書。
> >
> > 老闆最痛恨工人在工作時間偷懶,便問:你一個月的月薪多少?
> >
> > 工人回答:三萬。老闆立刻叫秘書發給工人三萬塊,並且對著工人大叫:拿了錢給
> 我滾!
> >
> > 事後老闆問其他職員:那工人是誰介紹來的?
> >
> > 職員說:他不是我們公司的人,他是其他公司派來送貨的
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
> >
> >
> > 兩隻母雞在樹下聊天,對面走來一隻腳步不穩,無精打采,垂頭喪氣的公雞,一隻
> 母雞問:「怎麼啦?病啦?累成這樣?」
> >
> > 公雞說: 「做點小買賣累成的。」
> >
> > 另一隻母雞跟著問: 「做啥買賣勞累成這樣呢?」
> >
> > 公雞臉紅,低下頭說:
> >
> > .
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> > .
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> > .
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> > .
> >
> > 「賣雞精。」
Monday, October 27, 2008
Countless of thoughts have been running through my mind for the past few weeks,perhaps due to the fact that a lot of things are coming to an end with the coming big big A's. I hav been so tempted to blog all those thoughts down but i've been resisting the temptation becoz i've got to study.heh,speaking bout studies, it's jus 1 more week to my 1st paper, and to be honest, i dun feel prepared at all.not even a single bit.i duno, i jus hope history will repeat itself and i will still manage to get some good grades heh.
okok i shall jus leave everything for my free time after A's heh.bak to study.
okok i shall jus leave everything for my free time after A's heh.bak to study.
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