Monday, December 29, 2008

i nid an escape.
odac trip couldnt have come at a more appropriate time.
cant wait to see them again.i've not seen this group of ppl for too long,given how important they r to me.
and i cant wait for class bbq too.gosh.
time to go.bye. =D

Saturday, December 27, 2008

i hate this feeling of uncertainty
rarr wat's wrong
i'm tired..i rly am..

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

我真的不知道该怎么做了
算了吧...

Monday, December 15, 2008

ok i'm now 18 yrs 1 day and 12 hours old!whoo finally legal to do lots of stuff
wahahaha.
ok and maybe it's time to grow up too.shant be so childish anymore.a bit har ar but ok lar i'll try to be a little less childish heh.nid to grow up whoo.
oh oh and a big thank you to all the ppl tat greeted me! be it via sms,msn,facebook,phonecalls etc heh.u guys rly made my day!!!although i spent half of it attending the ultimate boring undang lesson.haha.
ok so a big hug and thank you for the following ppl: my family, of course, my 2 greatest families in singapore: 07S47 and ODAC =D, the super crazy vj msians XD, e forever imba cat high jar jar binks, not forgetting also xinrong,dianne,huiqing,jun ru,grace,zhi han,damian,auntie linda,yong hui,jialu,pey yih,jia horng,ricky,kai han and her super delicious cake heh,荣升,kai chi,xin ran,si xuan,and some whom i dunno personally but still greeted me on facebook and friendster. thank you so much ppl! u guys rock! haha.

my blog posts seem to be decreasing over the past few months, heh partly because i cant jus share abt my feelings and wat happened in my life online so freely now.yeah i guess it is rly true tat when u gain some,u lose some huh.

life in malaysia so far has been great,very unhealthy tho,hha my parents hav been stuffing me wif everthing they could get so tat i can gain some weigt.oh wells.
went for the undang lesson ytd, jus wanna get my driving license as quickl as possible haha.hopefully i'll be able to take the test this wednesday before all the trips start. the undang lesson was darn boring by the way,i couldnt understand the lecturer most of the time cos i rly lost touch wif malay lol. and they speak pretty fast.so yeah, gain practically nth in the 6-hours long lesson.lol nvm at least my sis and her frens were thr,so it wasnt tat boring heh.
ming yao came over last nite,very long nv c him lo,talked non-stop for 1 hour plus b4 he went bak to his aunt's hse hehe.
ok i shall go study undang now le.feeling lazy to blog.haha till nxt time then =D

Thursday, December 4, 2008

A Message by George Carlin, and how true it is..

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways ,but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

If you don't send this to other people....Who cares?

George Carlin

Sunday, November 23, 2008

A levels..就这样过了
就这样?
是啊,就这样。每次也不都一样,考前,考时是多么的期待考完后的自由
考完后,疯了几天,等心情平复了之后,诶,这就是自由阿

到底什么是自由阿
漫无目的的吃喝玩乐,却总觉得缺少了什么..
闷得发慌,真的快长菇了

只是这次有点不一样了,十二年的正规教育就这样结束了
我想我会怀念穿校服的日子的
人果然是矛盾的动物呵

好闷好闷好闷

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

haha ok i shall be studying but this is kinda funny.
good stuff to destress heh.
ok off to chem!


> > 某天夜裡, 一名裸男叫了一輛計程車, 女司機目不轉睛盯著他看.
> >
> > 裸男大怒,罵:「你他媽的沒見過裸男呀 ! 」
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> > 女司機也大怒:「我看你他媽的從哪裡掏錢 ! 」
> >
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> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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> > 有個老頭去看醫生,告訴醫生他的腸胃有問題。
> >
> > 醫生問他:「你的大便規律嗎?」
> >
> > 老頭說:「很規律,每天早上八點鐘準時大便。」
> >
> > 醫生說:「那麼,你還有什麼問題?」
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> > 老頭說:「問題是,我每天早上九點鐘才起床。」
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> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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> > 一位救生員向一名泳客抗議:「我已經注意了你三天了,先生,你不能在游泳池小
> 便。」
> >
> > 泳客:「每個人都在游泳池小便。」
> >
> > 救生員:「沒錯!先生,但只有你站在跳板上。」
> >
> >
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> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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> > 阿萍﹕『為什麼【男】字上面是個田字呢?』
> >
> > 阿玲﹕『因為古時候的男人都在田裡工作。』
> >
> > 阿萍﹕『那為什麼下面要加個力字呢?』
> >
> > 阿玲﹕『笨蛋!男人下面沒力還叫男人嗎!?』
> >
> >
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> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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> >
> > 某大公司老闆巡視倉庫,發現一個工人,坐在地上看漫畫書。
> >
> > 老闆最痛恨工人在工作時間偷懶,便問:你一個月的月薪多少?
> >
> > 工人回答:三萬。老闆立刻叫秘書發給工人三萬塊,並且對著工人大叫:拿了錢給
> 我滾!
> >
> > 事後老闆問其他職員:那工人是誰介紹來的?
> >
> > 職員說:他不是我們公司的人,他是其他公司派來送貨的
> >
> >
> >
> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> >
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> >
> > 兩隻母雞在樹下聊天,對面走來一隻腳步不穩,無精打采,垂頭喪氣的公雞,一隻
> 母雞問:「怎麼啦?病啦?累成這樣?」
> >
> > 公雞說: 「做點小買賣累成的。」
> >
> > 另一隻母雞跟著問: 「做啥買賣勞累成這樣呢?」
> >
> > 公雞臉紅,低下頭說:
> >
> > .
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> > .
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> > .
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> > .
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> > .
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> > .
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> > .
> >
> > 「賣雞精。」

Monday, October 27, 2008

Countless of thoughts have been running through my mind for the past few weeks,perhaps due to the fact that a lot of things are coming to an end with the coming big big A's. I hav been so tempted to blog all those thoughts down but i've been resisting the temptation becoz i've got to study.heh,speaking bout studies, it's jus 1 more week to my 1st paper, and to be honest, i dun feel prepared at all.not even a single bit.i duno, i jus hope history will repeat itself and i will still manage to get some good grades heh.
okok i shall jus leave everything for my free time after A's heh.bak to study.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

I duno wat's happening...
i'm scared..i rly am..

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

tmr will be my last official day wearing a school uniform.heh how time flies eh,12 years of formal education.thinking back now, i rly wonder how all these things could have happened in my life.it totally amazes me, i think i mus've been a rly rly rly good person that has done so much good things in my past lives that i'm being rewarded with all these things in this life i'm currently leading. 4 yrs in primary school, 4 yrs in chung hwa, 2 yrs in cat high and 2 yrs in vj (tat makes up 4 yrs in singapore). i guess my life is jus bound to this number '4', a supposedly unlucky number,haha but i seriously cant think my life could've been any better if any of these things did not happen. PTS, getting through the interview that allowed me to skip from primary 5 to secondary 1, goin for the scholarship test that my mum randomly signed up for me, of course the best is still being able to stay in vj despite getting an 8 for my L1R5.and signing up for b2b07, tat's a major turning point of my life, i would have never expected myself to be doing all these things in odac. from someone who couldnt even run a full 1.2k, i've never imagined myself to be running more than 2.4k ever, and now i'm goin for 21. climbing mountains, sth i've always wanted to do but didnt have the chance to, and now i could even say i've climbed up himalayas, haha though it's jus 4000m. and all the ots and camps, they were awesome. spending nights in the great outdoor is jus f*king fun, sry for the word used, haha but it's so damn true. and all the outdoor activities, kayaking,rock climbing, adventure racing, rafting, doing all these is simply a dream come true for me. i wanted to join scouts so much in chung hwa becos i think it's damn cool, but i didnt and joining odac has definitely made up for it, and i rly have to say these 2 yrs as an odac instructor were rly awesome,definitely sth i'll treasure for the rest of my life.
now i dont know whr m i goin to spend my nxt 4 years, hopefully still in singapore, and i shall jus see wat happens after that.haha.
and this is jus another coincidence i realised, my luck seems to be rly good every 4 yrs since the start of this new century, 2000,i got through the chung hwa admission test, 2004,i got through the scholarship test, and now 2008, it's not over yet, but it has been a rly great year, well of course there were some upsets but well,generally it's totally awesome. and i rly hope my luck will be equally or even better for my A's haha.
was looking through the photos jus now,and i jus cant stress enough how fortunate i am to hav met these people in my life. frens from chung hwa, although i've not rly stayed in contact with most of u, well still thx for everything. and then thr r my brothers from cat high, 2 yrs spent with u all were rly fun, esp in 2006, probably the craziest year of my life haha, which group of ppl on earth would play so much before and during exams and still score the As haha.tat has got to be us.
and of course, all the ppl i've met in vj. 07S47 and ODAC, i've said numerous times that u guys rock and i rly rly love you guys.but still it's never enough, thank you so much for everything.
and of course my dear PA Crew, haha pa is a rly cool cca, trust me. to be behind the scenes and controlling everything is jus f*king shiok.although we did screw up a few times *cough* but heh, it's wat we've done and achieved tat matters the most isnt it.haha.
the malaysian scholars,yep yep it's been rly great knowing u ppl more this year, and our random outings/gatherings and meal sessions were rly fun. and thx for the ubin trip, it rly brings back a lot of memories and i finally get to see wild boars!!5 some more haha. and i also saw a snake and a kampung of monkeys, all the animals jus decided to show themselves up on tat day, i wonder why haha. that night at ubin was rly crazy haha and it rly reminded me of all the time i spent with my fellow odac mates. heh emo emo. haha.
yes and of course thr r other ppl tat i've not mentioned, creon callixto, RALPHIEL!, and all my other frens in vj, thank you for everything.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

read the news..
a girl,16 yrs old,top student,from jb was kidnapped,possibly sexually assaulted,killed and her body burnt..by 4 teenagers that she knew..
wat has happened to the ppl nowadays..

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

well well have received quite a number of interesting emails and here is yet another one. haha although i dun rly believe in horoscopes but this is kind of interesting haha.

shall start off wif mine. haha well i like the 2nd last line LOL. scroll down for more.

SAGITTARIUS - The Promiscuous One

Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. A loner most of the time. Loses patience easily and will not take crap. If in a bad mood stay FAR away. Gets offended easily and remembers the offense forever. Loves deeply but at times will not show it feels it is a sign of weakness. Has many fears but will not show it. VERY private person. Defends loved ones will all their abilities. Can be childish often. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in bed..!!! Not the kind of person you want to mess with- you might end up crying.


ARIES - The Aggressive

Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY adorable. Loves relationships, and family is very important to an Aries. Aries are known for being generous and giving. Addictive. Loud. Always has the need to be 'Right'. Aries will argue to prove their point for hours and hours. Aries are some of the most wonderful people in the world. 16 years of bad luck if you do not forward.



TAURUS - The Tramp

Aggressive. Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight.
Fight for what they want. Can be annoying at times, but for the love of attention. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Good kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. They can be self centered and if they want something they will do anything to get it. They love to sleep and can be lazy. One of a kind. Not one to mess with. Are the most attractive people on earth! 15 years of bad luck if you do not forward.



GEMINI - The Twin

Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners Very Good at confusing people... Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Gemini's will not take any crap from anyone. Gemini's like to tell people what they should do and get offended easily. They are great at losing things and are forgetful. Gemini's can be very sarcastic and childish at times, and are very nosey.
Trustworthy. Always happy. VERY Loud. Talkative. Outgoing VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. 9 years of bad luck if you do not forward.






CANCER - The Beauty

MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high appeal. A Cancer's Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Most caring person you will ever meet in your life. Entirely creative Person, most's are artists and insane respectfully speaking. They perfected sex and do it often. Extremely random. An Ultimate Freak. Extremely funny and is usually the life of the party. Most cancers will take you under their wing and into their hearts where you will remain forever. Cancers make love with a passion beyond compare
Spontaneous. Not a Fighter, But will kick your ass good if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to! 12 years of bad luck if you do not forward.



LEO - The Lion

Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Usually happy, but when unhappy tend to be grouchy and childish. A Leo's problem becomes everyone's problem. Most Leos are very predictable and tend to be monotonous. Knows how to have fun. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Very predictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found. 7 years of bad luck if you do not forward.




VIRGO - The One that Waits

Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. A pushover. Loves to gamble and take chances. Needs to have the last say in everything. They think they know everything and usually do. Respectful to others but you will quickly lose their respect if you do something untrustworthy towards them and never regain respect. The do not forgive and never forget the one and only. 7 years of bad luck if you do not forward.




LIBRA - The Lame One

Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! However, not the kind of person you want to mess with... you might end up crying... Libras can cause as much havoc as they can prevent. faithful friends to the end. Can hold a grudge for years. Libras are someone you want on your side. Usually great at sports and are extreme sports fanatics. Kinda dumb at times. 9 years of bad luck if you do not forward.




SCORPIO - The Addict

EXTREMELY adorable. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor. Will try almost anything once. Loves to be pampered. Energetic. Predictable. GREAT kisser. Always get what they want. Attractive. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Loves to party but at times to the extreme. Loves the smell and feel of money and is good at making it but just as good at spending it! Very protective over loved ones. HARD workers. Can be a good friend but if disrespected by a friend, the friendship will end. Romantic. Caring.
4 years of bad luck if you do not forward.



CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover

Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Grouchy at times and annoying to some. Lazy and love to take it easy. But when they find a job or something they like to do they put their all into it. Proud, understanding and sweet.
Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always
gets what he or she wants. Cool. Loves to win against other signs especially Gemini's in sports. Likes to cook but would rather go out to eat at good restaurants.
Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 24 years of bad luck if you do not forward.




AQUARIUS - Does It In The Water

Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind, loves being in
long-term relationships. Can be clumsy at times but tries hard. Will take on any project. Proud of themselves in whatever they do. Messy, and unorganized. Procrastinators. Great lovers, when their not sleeping. Extreme thinkers. Loves their pets usually more then their family. Can be VERY irritating to others when they try to explain or tell a story. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out. 2 years of bad luck if you do not forward



PISCES - The Partner for Life

Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. Messy at times and irresponsible! Smart but lazy. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. Lover of animals. VERY caring, make wonderful nurses or doctors. They always try to do the right thing sometimes get the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor!!! Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to other but need to be choosy on who they allow their friends to be.
This is hilarious hahahaha.

Murid : Selamat pagi, cikgu.

Cikgu : (Menengking) Mengapa selamat pagi sahaja? Petang dan malam awak
doakan saya tak selamat?

Murid : Selamat pagi, petang dan malam cikgu!

Cikgu : Panjang sangat! Tak pernah dibuat oleh orang! Kata selamat
sejahtera! Senang dan penuh bermakna.Lagipun ucapan ini meliputi semua masa
dan keadaan.

Murid : Selamat sejahtera cikgu!

Cikgu : Sama-sama, duduk! Dengar sini baik- baik. Hari ini cikgu nak uji
kamu semua tentang perkataan berlawan. Bila cikgu sebutkan perkataannya,
kamu semua mesti menjawab dengan cepat, lawan bagi perkataan-perkataan itu,
faham?

Murid : Faham, cikgu!

Cikgu : Saya tak mahu ada apa-apa gangguan dan selepas ini saya
Akan uji kamu semua simpulan bahasa!!!

Murid : (senyap)
Cikgu : Pandai!

Murid : Bodoh!

Cikgu : Tinggi!

Murid : Rendah!

Cikgu : Jauh!

Murid : Dekat!

Cikgu : Keadilan!

Murid : UMNO!

Cikgu : Salah!

Murid : Betul!

Cikgu : Bodoh!

Murid : Pandai!

Cikgu: Bukan!
Murid : Ya!

Cikgu : Oh Tuhan!

Murid : Oh Hamba!

Cikgu : Dengar ini!

Murid : Dengar itu!

Cikgu : Diam!

Murid : Bising!

Cikgu : Itu bukan pertanyaan, bodoh!

Murid : Ini ialah jawapan, pandai!

Cikgu : Mati aku!

Murid : Hidup kami!

Cikgu : Rotan baru tau!

Murid : Ratan lama tak tau!

Cikgu : Malas aku ajar kamu!

Murid : Rajin kami belajar saya!

Cikgu : Kamu bodoh!

Murid : Kami pandai!

Cikgu : Cukup!! Cukup! !

Murid : Tak cukup!!Tak cukup! !

Cikgu : Sudah! Sudah!

Murid : Belum! Belum!

Cikgu : Kurang ajar!

Murid : Cukup ajar!

Cikgu : Sudah, bodoh!

Murid : Belum, pandai!

Cikgu : Berdiri!

Murid : Duduk!

Cikgu : Saya kata UMNO salah!

Murid : Kami dengar KeADILan betul!

Cikgu : Bangang kamu ni!

Murid : Cerdik kami tu!

Cikgu : Rosak!

Murid : Baik!

Cikgu : Kamu semua ditahan tengah hari ini!

Murid : Dilepaskan tengah malam itu!

Cikgu : Gila lah kamu semua ni!!!!!!!!!!!
Murid : Siuman lo saya tu???????????

Cikgu : Senyap lah !!

Murid : Bising lo??

Cikgu : Jangan bising, bodoh, bodoh, bodoh!!

Murid : Boleh senyap, pandai, pandai, pandai??

Cikgu : Sudah, sekarang saya akan uji simpulan bahasa!!

Murid : Belum, selepas kamu belum uji peribahasa??

Cikgu : Ringan tulang!!

Murid : Berat gnalut??

Cikgu : Salah!!!

Murid : Betul???
Cikgu yang garang itu segara lari dari kelas itu.Murid-murid berasa lega dan
gembira kerana berjaya menjawab pertanyaan cikgu mereka
被狗吠的人,不一定是賊;
留長鬍子,也不一定是藝術家。
但有了「 偏 」見,就會把「人 」看「 扁」了 ?


每星期五晚上,小吳都開車送太太到火車站搭車,去探生病的媽媽。
十分鐘後,小吳妹妹所乘的火車就到站。
他接她回家幫忙他們料理家務。
每逢星期日整個程序正好相反。
小吳妹妹的火車開出十分鐘後,他太太才到。
有一晚,他的妹妹剛走,小吳正等著接太太的車,一個站務員慢慢走過來。
他笑容詭異地說 :「先生,你真有辦法。難道你不怕有一天會被她們逮到嗎 ? 」

(((((((( 月暈效應))))))))

和別人相處時,我們都慣於戴上一副「 先入為主 」的眼睛,
將別人放進一個「 框框 」裡,
再用這個框框解釋此人的角色與行為他是好人、他是壞人,
他好像有外遇、她很愛佔小便宜 ........
我們甚至把想法投射到對方身上,
以致經常偏離事實真相。


也許你也聽過這則故事 ..
有兩個女人,坐在同一張桌子喝飲料。
其中一個,把雨傘靠在桌邊,
另一個在喝完飲料時,迷迷糊糊的,順手拿起雨傘就走。
雨傘的主人大聲叫說 :「喂 ! 妳拿了我的雨傘。」
前面那個女人一臉尷尬,紅著臉向對方道歉,
說是忘了自已沒帶傘,一時誤拿。
這件事,讓她想起需要買把雨傘,順便也買一把給孩子,於是她便去買了兩把。
回家的路上,她正巧又跟那位之前被她誤拿雨傘的女人坐在同一輛公車上。
那女人注視著那兩把雨傘,說 :「我看妳今天的成績還不錯嘛 ! 」


人們在判斷別人時常有一種傾向,
就是把人概分為「 好的 」或「不好的 」兩部分。
當一個人留給人的印象是「 好的 」時,
人們就會把他的言行舉止用「 好的 」角度去解釋,
反之, 如果一個人被歸於「 不好的 」的印象時,
那麼,一切「 不好的 」看法都會加在他的身上。
這種現象稱之為「 月暈效應 」。
意即當人們看到月亮的同時,
周邊的光環也會被注意到當一個人的「 印象確立 」之後,
人們就會自動「 印象概推 」(Halo Effect )將第一印象的認知與對方的言行聯想在一起。


「成見」能有多荒謬?
有一名年輕猶太人和老猶太人坐在同一列火車上。
年輕猶太人問老猶太人說:「 先生,請問現在幾點了? 」
老猶太人卻默不作聲。
「 對不起! 先生,請問現在幾點了? 」
老猶太人還是不答
「 先生很抱歉打擾您了!但是我真的想要知道現在是幾點鐘。你為什麼不回答我呢?」
老猶太人答道:
「 孩子,下一站就是最後一站了。而我一點都不認識你這個陌生人。
如果我現在回答你,依照猶太人的傳統,我就必須邀請你到我家坐。
你長得很英俊,而我有一個很漂亮的女兒。
你們倆一定會愛上對方,然後你就會把我的女兒娶走。
你告訴我,我為什麼要一個連手錶都買不起的女婿呢? 」


幾乎每一分鐘、每一件事,我們都依憑著過去所得的知識、經驗在作判斷。
比方,我們常聽說(或認為):「 生意人都很狡猾 」、
「 女人都是爛駕駛」、
「 男人都很不衛生」、
「 猶太人都很吝嗇」、
「 美國人都很浪漫」 ....... 等等。
此後我們心中就會建立一套刻板的印象,
並用這個「 成見 」去解釋或評斷周遭的人事物。


一對男女若看到一個男人拿把花走在街上,
女的可能會想:「 哦 !他真體貼、好浪漫。 」
男的也許會認為,「 天啊 !我看這傢伙完了 」


有一則故事,大意是這樣的:
有一位先生初到美國不久,某個早上到公園散步,
看到一些白人坐在草坪上聊天、曬太陽,
他心想 : 「美國人生活真是悠閒,有錢又懂得享受生活。」
走了不久,又看到有幾個黑人也悠閒地坐在草坪的另一邊,
這位先生不禁想到,
「唉 !黑人失業的問題還真是嚴重,這些人大概都在領社會救濟金過生活。」


艾斯曾有這麼一段妙喻,
當你暗夜走在街上,看見某扇窗亮了一盞燈。
也許有人會說 :「這一定是母親為還沒有回家的子女在禱告」
也有人會說 :「老天,一定有人在偷情。」
哈茲立特有句話 :「 偏見是無知的孩子。 」
說得一點都不錯,
「 人」「 扁 」為偏 ,
人一旦有了偏見,
就會把「 人 」看「扁 」、看「 偏」了。


大多數的人並不了解你,
你也不完全了解這些人,
既然如此,
我們就不該輕易地去論斷他人,
當然也不必在意別人的論斷。
因為,
每個人都可能扣錯第一顆釦子 ,
不是嗎?



思想的弓拉動時間的小提琴,
葦瓦地的春天 ,
明媚了我心底的角落 .

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Prelims
Nike Human Race
A levels
SDD
Standard Chartered
Overseas Trip? =D
Class outings? =D
ODAC outings? =D
family!

4As (<- big fat hope)
driving license
NUS engineering

and

you =D

Sunday, August 3, 2008

ok this is pretty funny haha enjoy!

Why Chinese shouldn't have Christian names:
Anne Chang
(Mandarin)-Dirty

Anne Chin
(Mandarin) - Keep quiet

Faye Chen
(Mandarin) - Dusty

Carl Cheng
(Hokkien) - Buttock

Monica Cheng
Hokkien) - Touching your buttocks

Lucy Leow
(Hokkien) - You are dead

Jane Tan
(Mandarin) - Frying eggs

Suzie Leow
(Hokkien) - Lost till death

Henry Mah
(Mandarin) - Hate your mum

Corrine Tai
(Hokkien) - Poor fellow

Paul Chan
(Mandarin) - Bankrupt

Nelson Tan
(Mandarin) - Bird laying eggs

Leslie Tong
(Mandarin) - Rubbish bin

Carmen Teng
(Hokkien) - Leg hair long

Connie Mah
(Cantonese) - Call your mother

Danny See
(Hokkien) - Squeeze you to death

Rosie Teng
(Hokkien) - Screws and nails

Pete Tsai
(Hokkien) - Nose droppings

Macy Koh
(Cantonese) - Never die before

Thursday, July 31, 2008

1 month.for a person who lives 70 years, 1 month is jus 1/840=0.00190 (3s.f.) of his entire life.
yet sometimes tat 0.00190 period of our life can hav such huge impact on our lives.
july, or rather from mid-june to 31st july has been a rly special 1 and a half month for me.it's like an emotional roller coaster ride, with more up and downs, 360 degree turns and stuff. termination of scholarship, ct2, receiving results of ct2, scholarship fair, careers talk, university talk,all subjects going into revision, realising how far back i am, every subject going into revisions, and thr were also investiture and farewell.
tmr will be the 1st day of august,and 24 days before prelims officially starts, the fear of the A levels in me is growing faster each day, dy/dx greater than tat of y=x^(infinity).
this is the nth time i'm blogging abt how stressed and frustrated i am abt myself and my results, i know.
bt i rly cant help it, arghhhhh
i nid motivation to study, a very high one, like how i was in primary school, when finishing all the homework of the day before school ends was the most shiok thing to do, even if tat means i'll hav to hide my exercise books and hands in the drawer to not be discovered during lessons.things were simple then, simple dreams, simple lifestyle.
still rmb tat when i was in primary school, the form teacher will ask every student their ambitions and hobbies. my hobbies were consistently reading story books, watching tv and riding bicycle throughout my 4 yrs in primary school, while i had a lot of different ambitions back then, from doctor to lawyer,teacher,detective,scientist,owner of a big company haha.
and thr'll be these period of time every year when i'll be rly excited abt seeing my name on the newspaper after i've won sth, be it maths comp or receiving the RM50 scholarship from the 潮州会馆. RM50 was such a huge amt for me then haha, when i was still spending less than RM1 per day. 1 plate of fried mee and 1 cup of barley only cost like 60 cents? and i'll use the remaining 40 cents to buy erasers or small toys to play. erasers were like our chips then, and our toys at the same time. we'll play this game which aim was to make ur eraser be on top of others' and the last eraser standing will be the winner and get all the erasers haha. so sometimes i'll go home with a bag full of erasers and sometimes without any.
everytime i see the cabinet filled with trophies in my house, i'll start to wonder wat has happened te. havent rly won anything much after i graduated from primary school. hey i was once the best in maths among students of my age in muar, although it took me 2 years to bring the girl from presbyterian primary school down from 1st place haha. and i can still rmb the smile on the principal's face when he so proudly announced the very first golden trophy my primary school has ever won, if i rmb correctly. and i met him in june when i went bak and he still recognizes me!
shall save this for the nxt time. 10.37pm now. complex 3 tutorial, gp 2005 compre to go. holy ****

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Investiture and farewell were .. i duno how to describe, my vocab sux. bt yes i'm rly impressed by the 25th's work. they really put in a lot a lot of effort. yes it was better than ours bt last year this time, we were exhausted because of reunion, so we r still good haha. ok now i think the 25ths rly hav the potential to be as good as us or maybe better! i duno, ultimately it still lies with them.
i duno how did i manage to hold back the tears last night, and i've rly been thinking a lot for the past few days. reminiscing the times we had since b2b 07. thank you odac. thank you so much, i'm rly grateful. odac rly has changed me a lot a lot, totally beyond wat i've expected.
thank you 24ths, each and everyone of u, for everything. rly. love you guys. and this will definitely not be the end, it's jus the beginning!
ok it's rly time to study now. i look at my files and the stuff tat i've to study rly make a great pile, higher than everest. i'll try.. bt i guess prelims is a gone case now. a levels. i'll get my As when it rly matters.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

其实,一直都很想把生活里发生的一些事用故事的方法写出来。
最近真的很多灵感,但课业上的压力真的让我想都不敢想...
而且我现在的华文程度也够破了,写出来应该真的是让人见笑吧...

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

a continuation to ytd's post haha.

yet i've never regretted coming to vj. in fact i'm more than happy to be here and i rly believe i've made the right choice.
i guess i'm still lucky to be able to stay in vj after jae.
and i'm so glad i've met so many imba frens in vj, of course most of them would be from odac, s47 and pa.
and i think wat mr seet told me was rly right, thr r somethings money cant buy, although mine came wif a big big cost.
i think i've been thinking too much for my whole life, if only i spent those time on my studies.
LOL.

Monday, July 21, 2008

went to the scholarship fair.felt totally out of place,extra,weird. duno wat was i doing thr. felt so inferior seeing those rafflesians and vj highflyers around :\
couldnt help but..rly wonder wat could have happened if i had chosen to work hard or even gone to rj. maybe i'll be eyeing those top us/uk universities now instead of being so lost and hopeless..
argh..think it's rly costly to lose my scholarship, it's nt jus money...it's gonna affect me when i apply for uni and stuff..i cant even afford to hope for any uni scholarship now..it rly hurts when i look at my grades..
i know it's too late and meaningless to think about all this now.but the fact tat i'm struggling with everything now rly bothers me a lot..i do believe i hav the abilities to do well.bt i can only blame myself for being so complacent. think it's rly too late. 3 months plus to a levels. i seriously dun think i'm gonna make it.
feel so damn lousy.screwed up.
damn...

Sunday, July 20, 2008

hopelessness..

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Hmm.nth much to blog abt recently.
met wif the jar jar binks brothers a few weeks ago for an imba buffet. super nice.
watched red cliff wif chua,lam and johnson. very nice.looking forward to part 2.
hav been studying bit by bit everyday, not efficient yet bt i'm trying. 5 weeks+ to prelims. hope i can still make it.
nth much to look forward to after school nowadays. kinda suck. life's becoming boring. argh!
i wan ptS..i nid to run. and i dun wan to run alone..
invest's nxt week.. hmm have been looking through all the photos for the past few weeks. time doesnt jus fly, it probably travels zillion times faster than light, unaffected by any external factor.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Thursday, July 10, 2008